"Theater of horrors parents-puppeteers"
Parents, do not you understand that if you continue in the same vein, then soon the whole world will turn in the film "I, Robot."? If you think that the fantastic stories of the war of men and machines, such as "Terminator" is just a fantasy, you're wrong. All this is happening right now.
(IINews) - Hello my dear readers. From the moment I started to write about the problem of fathers and children, my articles have acquired a great resonance. Daily on facebook and twitter dozens of people written me. In their letters of regret and parents about the mistakes that they made, and the stories of children, whose lives have been destroyed. It is written me about a great deal, and, so I knowingly began to investigate the problem of mutual relations of fathers and children.
An event that happened in Ukraine became reason of writing of my next article. It is family conflict, getting publicity in national MASS-MEDIA and becoming a point at the issue of public.
The situation, which I would like to take apart is difficult enough. Therefore, in order to enable you to understand the essence of this family conflict, I decided to take quotations from a source, and translated them into the English. Let''s see what happened...
September 2, 2015 journalist Julia Yalovaya was detained by law enforcement personnel.. Once it became aware of the incident, the crew of the newspaper, and two lawyers arrived at the local police station to understand the reason for her detention. On arrival in a separation, they ran into family of girl. A mother, father and native uncle, retained adult Yulia in the police department. Behavior of relatives had peculiar ways very, at sight of advocates, the mother of Yulia began to cry, that she categorically against, that her daughter signed the agreement of legal aid. She snatched out documents from the hands of advocate, tore them and gave up on the floor. The father of Yulia felt strongly categorically about that she intermingled with advocates and independently accepted some decisions.
Why correspondent Julia Yalovaya that evening was detained by law enforcement officers?
As turned out later, her mother, Antonina Yalovaya wrote a deliberately false statement to the police on his own daughter. The statement came down to the fact that Yulia allegedly works in a criminal organization, which pumps the drug young girls and prepares them for prostitution. Antonina Yalovaya not given the police any evidence and facts to confirm his words, it was her personal opinion, unfounded. The mother did not agree with the choice of jobs daughter, so I decided that this method will be able to influence her decision. In that day, Antonina Yalovaya committed an act which wiped out all the good that she tried to do for his daughter for 19 years. But here, she was sure of the correctness of his action, and did not feel any remorse. In the moment of family scandal in the police station she personally admitted that the statement, which she wrote on her own daughter, was false. She was ready to defend his point of view, and, apparently, for her it was more important than to save his family, and retain the respect of his daughter.
If you objectively look at this case in Ukraine, this situation is more reminiscent of a theater of the absurd, and a puppet theater. Unfortunately, so most of the families live.
In this puppet theater, as in any other, there is a scene - a family, there are dolls - are children, and there are puppeteers - parents. In most cases, this puppet theater is a theater of horrors. In this theater is almost no happy puppets and plays with a good finale almost are not too. Because the role of the dolls were children, run by their parents. And instead of invisible threads, which usually hang dolls - steel rods that are firmly held puppets in the hands of the puppeteer. And when the dolls make a step in the wrong direction, in the hope of escape from the shackles of these rods cause unbearable pain, and the dolls have to come back again to the place.
In this theater of horrors parents restrict a child not only in freedom or choice, they limit even his abilities and skills. And it''s fatal.
Really can be after such a theater in the child''s life at least some prospect? When all he can do is limited to those skills that he has acquired as a result of participation in the theater of horrors. As a result of training a person has formed a limited motor skills which do not allow him to step aside, to go beyond the limited long steel rods in the theater of horrors parents-puppeteers.
Really does a person achieve something, if mostly he does not accept independent decisions, if he practically nothing able, but to execute commands puppeteer? No. Parents-puppeteers are doing their children no matter what is absolutely incapable. His upbringing of the child they turn into a doll with a set of limited motor skills. And the life of such a child is doomed, because the doll can only execute the only programmed actions, and in order to achieve something in life need something more than the limited skills.
How does a man came out of a doll factory? He operates only two methods. He is either hiding or trying to get up. By virtue of a dependent person starts to hide, he is looking for a group, which can get lost, run away from problems. And here it does not matter that it will be a group - a group on interests, or society of anonymous alcoholics. The man is just trying to relieve the tension of the group, which had accumulated over the years of being in the theater of horrors and a constant struggle for freedom. There is another way of action.
He begins to search that, who will be able to give status to him, because he does not want a puppet. But whether a person is able to become someone, when all his skills are limited to those skills that he gained by performing actions on the will of the puppeteers? Really can he see something around, if his world is limited to the walls of theatre? Probably not, because he''s just a different world never sees.
This theatre of horrors is the not fictitious fantastic world, it is the world people live in that. Scientists name this whole nightmare automatism system. But who is she? Your parents. All this horror, all these limited motor skills - this automatism your parents-puppeteers. This is what keeps them automatically, completely predictable life. And this is the reason why they do not want to part with their dolls. And when the child tries to break forth on freedom, to go beyond the walls of the theater, at the puppeteer begins hysterics because the puppet theater can not exist without dolls.
If we consider the situation that has occurred in the family of Yalova in Ukraine, we can see that the cause of the incident was an attempt to stop the mother''s desire to escape from the doll factory. And when she decided to build their lives on their own, it caused a great resistance. The parents did not agree with this decision. Moreover, they did not want their daughter to take any decision. After all, it could affect their lives, to the automatic life to which they are accustomed.
The girl''s mother was ready to do anything, even to file a knowingly false statement on his own daughter to keep total control over your child. This woman deliberately chose the role of the puppeteer who does not want to part with her doll. Did she begin to think what it will result in? Probably not. She thought only about how not to lose control of his daughter, and was looking for any ways to do it. And in this way was a deliberately false statement to the police. The mother went on the offense in order to preserve at all costs its status as a puppeteer, and to save the theatre of horrors.
What has made the mother of his action in this case? On that day, when she wrote to her daughter deliberately false statement to the police, she lost it. And this is the fate that awaits parents puppeteers, who are trying to play the role of a caring loving parents, but secretly hope to keep control over their child.
Parent-puppeteer can be satisfied only when the child is fully subject to its will and not think about the fact that they are being manipulated and controlled.
It is a machine, which has only two states: «OFF» and «ON». While a child-doll submits to her will, she is in the quiet satisfied state, but as soon as there is the slightest resistance, the switch is activated and the alarm lamp lights up red. Then the parent puppeteer trying as quickly as possible to get rid of noise, to return control of the child, and return to a calm state.
Parents you do not understand really, that child, it, foremost a person, not props in your theater, that you name family? Moreover, I want to remind you that on the achievement of full age, it is an even not child already, it is personality that is responsible for the acts. It you try to keep him in a state of "child". Maybe, is it needed to look at what you do and to confess to itself herein?
Are not you sickened by role parents puppeteers? Can not you see that with your own hands maim their children?
Is it possible to change it? Yes. But as long as you cling to his automatic life, trying by all means to keep their theater of horrors, all your actions will be to capture, isolation and retention. Because consider your children props necessary for the continued existence of the auto world.
Parents, do not you understand that if you continue in the same vein, then soon the whole world will turn in the film "I, Robot."? If you think that the fantastic stories of the war of men and machines, such as "Terminator" is just a fantasy, you''re wrong. All this is happening right now.
What we see in the stories happened in Ukraine - it and there is "war of machine against a man" - a war between mother who defends his automatism and daughter, who wants to become a person.
What can happen to the machine or robot? They are always suffer defeat. They get older, fall out, break a secret and they are thrown out on a dump or send in a scrap. This is the future of machines and parents-puppeteers such as Mrs. Yalovaya.
What might happen to the child if he just did not run away from the theater of horrors, not tear off steel twigs, which are trying to keep his puppeteers? He is doomed ... Doomed to turn into the same machine as his puppet. The machine which has never in his life a man will not. Because a machine can generate a new machine only. And transform the child into a person can only a person.
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